Ok, right, so the following may be a touchy subject for many, but all the information is according to a study conducted in the United States by Marjorie Gunnoe, professor of psychology at Calvin College in Grand Rapids, Michigan.
Basically, the study finds that youngsters smacked up to the age of six do better in school and are more optimistic about their lives than those who are never hit by their parents.
They were also more likely to undertake voluntary work and keener to attend university.
While anything more than a light tap is definitely wrong, parents should be allowed the freedom to discipline their children without the fear that they will be reported to police
The claims made for not spanking children fail to hold up. They are not consistent with the data.
I think of spanking as a dangerous tool, but there are times when there is a job big enough for a dangerous tool. You just don’t use it for all your jobs.
The research was conducted by questioning 179 teenagers about how often they were smacked and up to what age.
Their answers were then compared with information they gave about their behaviour that could have been affected by smacking. This included negative effects such as anti-social behaviour, early sexual activity, violence and depression, as well as positives such as academic success and ambitions.
Those who had been smacked up to the age of six performed better in almost all the positive categories and no worse in the negatives than those never punished physically.
Teenagers who had been hit by their parents from age seven to 11 were also found to be more successful at school than those not smacked but fared less well on some negative measures, such as getting involved in more fights.
However, youngsters who claimed they were still being smacked scored worse than every other group across all the categories.
There was little difference found between racial groups and sexes:
If it’s done judiciously by a parent who is normally affectionate and sensitive to their child, our society should not be up in arms about that. Parents should be trusted to distinguish this from a punch in the face.
Aric Sigman, a psychologist and author of The Spoilt Generation: Why Restoring Authority will Make our Children and Society Happier, told the Sunday Times:
The idea that smacking and violence are on a continuum is a bizarre and fetishised view of what punishment or smacking is for most parents.
If it’s done judiciously by a parent who is normally affectionate and sensitive to their child, our society should not be up in arms about that. Parents should be trusted to distinguish this from a punch in the face.
Each to their own.
[source: telegraph]
